More than four years following his disappearance in 2002, Shawn Hornbeck is now safely home after being found alive with another child in January of this year. With one ordeal being over, another one seems well underway. The inevitable question of why Shawn failed to escape his kidnapper has led to verbal attacks from numerous directions. Shawn's parents have come under fire for daring to speculate publicly that their son was abused and Shawn himself has drawn fire from Bill O'Reilly who vilified him for failing to escape with all the nasty insinuations that he could muster.
Certainly, blaming the victim (especially a child victim) is nothing new. In a 19th century short story written by Guy de Maupassant titled Madame Baptiste, a woman lives her entire life under the stigma of having been molested as a child and is given the nickname of "Madame Baptiste" (Baptiste being the name of the man imprisoned for molesting her) by her fellow villagers. In the story, it is said of her:
The little girl grew up, stigmatized by disgrace, isolated, without any companions; and grown-up people would scarcely kiss her, for they thought that they would soil their lips if they touched her forehead, and she became a sort of monster, a phenomenon to all the town. People said to each other in a whisper: 'You know, little Fontanelle,' and everybody turned away in the streets when she passed. Her parents could not even get a nurse to take her out for a walk, as the other servants held aloof from her, as if contact with her would poison everybody who came near her
There is a sense of forboding as the story winds down to its tragic, inevitable end and you get the impression that the author knew of all too many real-life Madame Baptistes in his lifetime. While attitudes may have changed somewhat, there is still a tendency to turn child victims into pariahs. Thish often translates into a reluctance by parents to having their children come forward at all for fear of what they would face. Ultimately, it is this sort of attitude and the notion that a child who has "lost his or her innocence" should be shunned for it that can be a greater source of trauma for the victim than the actual abuse.
Shawn Hornbeck and all others like him deserve better than this.